Monday, October 29, 2007

What a difference a year makes -or- Halloween sneak peak

The picture of me was taken a year ago today, and the picture of Reed is from, you guessed it, today! I beleive this is the last picture we have of me pregnant (not counting the pictures of me in labor in the hospital). Exactly two weeks later, Reed was born!! I can't believe it's been almost a year already. I'll try to post another picture of him in his Halloween costume (it is ridiculously cute!) I was having a hard time getting him to pose today so this was the best I got.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

The good, the bad and the beautiful

Hopefully it goes without saying, but the beautiful I'm refering to in the title on this post, is of course, Reed. We took advantage of the beautiful weather we had these last two days to get out in the yard and play a bit. I didn't get pictures of it, but his favorite activity was playing in the beauty bark we've got on the flower beds. We would carefully pick up a piece of bark, put it in my waiting palm. I'd then close my fingers over it, open my hand again and he'd pick it back up, examine it, and we'd start all over again. He's so fascinated right now by hiding objects and then retrieving them. It's amazing to me how much of his world he seems to understand now. I watched, astonished, a few days ago, as he tried to plug in the lanyard from a stop watch, into an outlet (which was safely covered of course). It wasn't even an outlet we use often, but he knows what outlets are for... cords!

There are two good things to report! First is that Reed slept through the night last night for the first time ever, and not in by the definition in most baby books which is 5-6 hours of continuous sleep (I slept more than that most nights in college for Pete's sake!) but in the, goes to bed at 7:30 and doesn't make a peep until 6:00 sense of the word. Okay, so 6 am is a pretty early wakeup call, but it's easier to handle when you haven't been up every two hours all night long!!
The other good news is that Reed gained 8+ ounces last month and grew an inch. We saw a dietican a month ago (for reasons I'll explain in a moment) and she was concerned about Reed's growth so these gains are very good news indeed. He's still a tiny guy, not yet 18lbs and just starting to wear some of his 9-12 month clothes, but he's gaining.
And the bad... The reason we started seeing the dietician a month ago, is that Reed's allergic colitis seems to be flaring up again. I'm back on the elimination diet (no dairy, soy, eggs, peanuts, treenuts, fish or shellfish) which is no fun, but not the end of the world either. We're really not sure what is causing the allergic reaction, and in a last ditch effort to remove the offending protein from his diet, the dietician is taking him off oatmeal. Needless to say, Reed will not be having birthday cake this year. I already kind of knew that, and was going to give him birthday oatmeal because it's his favorite food, but now, he can't even have that.
We go and see Reeds gastroenterologist the day after his birthday (Nov. 12) and there's a possibility that he'll have to get a colonoscopy if things haven't gotten better, and also a possibility that I'll have to wean him, neither of which are welcome prospects. I'm especially worried about the prospect of having to wean. I'm definitely not ready to wean, and I don't think Reed is either. Sure, sometimes he's a little squirmy about the whole affair, especially when we're out and about. But there are other times when he crawls into my lap, and puts his head on my chest, looking up at me periodically, until I get the hint, he wants to nurse. So, I'm melancholy and worried tonight. Keep us in your hearts these next weeks and we'll keep our thoughts positive. We've endured worse than this and come out just fine!!!

Sunday, October 14, 2007

Climb every mountain

Or at least one... Today, Gerry, Reed and I hiked to the top of Mt. Townsend in the Olympics. As far as we could tell from the weather forecast (and I know all of you know how "reliable" those are around here) today was going to be one of the last nice fall days for a while. We'd been itching to get out for a hike, and we figured we'd better seize the opportunity before we're confronted with rainy weekend after rainy weekend.

Neither Gerry nor I (nor Reed for that matter), had climbed Mt. Townsend but it was a real treat! It was sooo good to get out. The weather was beautiful and the air had the wonderful sweet smell of fall. We could tell that there had already been some good frosty nights as many of the meadow plants were looking a little worse for wear, but in the sub-alpine, there were still bright red leaves on the huckleberries and the vanillas leaf and thimble berries were all gold. In the woods, vine maples added their gold color to the green.

We got views of Seattle, Rainier, Baker and once we reached the top, the rest of the Olympics. It was foggy this morning and there seemed to be a haze hanging over most of the Puget Sound basin which obscured our view a bit, even after we'd climbed above it.

Reed seemed to enjoy himself! He spent a good amount of the time just taking in the scenery, but also like to reach out for the trees when we were in the woods, so we took many little stops so he could touch the trees, rhododendrons, etc. I'm so proud of my little tree hugger!!

We're going to have to figure out a way to lighten our load a little bit the next time we do this. I carried all of our food, water, extra clothes, diapers, etc. and the backpack I was carrying was a bit on the heavy side (I even hesitate to say just how heavy it was lest I seem like a crazy over-packer). The end result is that I'm whooped now! Doesn't help that we're working on cutting down Reed's night wakings by not getting him out of his crib when he cries at night (we still go to him, but try to comfort him in other ways). Hopefully it will pay off, but for right now, it means that all three of us are getting a bit less sleep!

Monday, October 08, 2007

Happy Anniversary!

Gerry and I celebrated our fourth year of marriage, by getting a new dishwasher! A friend of mine told me, you know you're at a new phase of life when you're excited about getting a new dishwasher! :-) So true, and I feel a bit non-romantic about it, but we really are excited about it!

Reed tried to give Gerry and bit of help installing the dishwasher. He was most impressed with Daddy's shiny metal toys.

Soon Arlo got into the mix. Reed LOVES Arlo, and as you can see, Gerry soon had his hands full preventing Reed from loving Arlo to death.

It's up to you, New York, Newww Yoooooork!

Okay, for this post, we're traveling back in time a bit, but I just got these pictures from my mom and I didn't want to post about our trip to New York till I had the pictures.

In early September, my mom and dad, Reed and I, all headed out to New York (state not city) to visit my mom's side of the family. (I gave Gerry the option of coming with us, or taking the time to go backpacking and he seized the opportunity to get out into the woods.) I hadn't been to visit them since I was 2, and the only members of the family I remember are the few who have made visits to Washington, so my visit was LONG overdue! It's always been a bit strange to me to know that I've got cousins whom I've never met.

Once again, I was a little worried about all the plane travel, and once again, Reed proved himself to be an excellent traveler. I thought about bringing a few new toys to keep him entertained but didn't wind up doing so, but that wound up being fine as we were seated directly across the aisle from a 17 month old boy who was WAY more entertaining than any toy could be (time to find Reed a playgroup!)

We stayed in a small town called Hyde Park, which is in upstate New York. The town is conveniently located near the homes of my NY relatives and is also the home of FDR. The purpose of our trip was to visit family so, we made that our first priority!

This is my cousin Laurie with Reed on our first full day in Hyde Park. If you look at Reed's eyes, you can see just how exhausted he was. He did a great job traveling, but it took him the better part of the week to adjust to the 3 hour time change. He pulls his ears when he's tired, and he was pulling he's ears so much and with such force, I started to worry that he might be suffering some ear trouble in the aftermath of the flight. Thankfully it was just because he was tired.

This is the rest of Reed's generation on my Mom's side of the family. I'm out of place here as these are all of my cousin's kids. Can you tell I'm the youngest of my generation by a good 10+ years?!

As I said, we made it a priority to visit family, but we got out and visited some sites too. This pictures was taken on a day when we visited FDR's presidential library and museum. I know the picture is a bit boring, but it tells a good story. When we got there, the helicopter pictured, was circling over the grounds. We had no idea what it was there for, but my mom snapped this picture. Later, I saw a rather official looking fellow and asked him what the helicopter was about. He replied "Well, it's 9/11 isn't it? Heightened security...". With a bit of forehead smacking and "oh, of course!" from my family and I, we went on with our day.

It wasn't till later, when we were visiting the Vanderbilt mansion, that we discovered the real reason the helicopter was there. We overheard a couple saying that they had run into Donald Rumsfeld at the FDR museum on the same day we had been there! It was then that we realized that the helicopter wasn't for heightened security, it was for Rumsfeld, and the official looking fellow I had asked about it was (I'm almost positive) a secret service agent. I told Gerry, it was just as well that we didn't run into Rumsfeld as I was pretty sure that the secret service wouldn't have taken kindly to me shouting obscenities at Rumsfeld to which, Gerry assured me, that he would have flown out to New York to bail me out of jail. :-)
The weather turned from summer to fall while we were there. When we arrived the days were warm and humid (though not unbearably so). About halfway through our trip, the weather turned cool and rainy. It rained on us here, the day we visited the Vanderbilt mansion, and of course, us Washingtonians were the only ones there without an umbrella. Grandpa improvised here to keep Reed dry.
We did manage to make it to the big city for a little while. We took the train down and arrived at 11 in the morning and had to take the 4:40 afternoon train home to ensure Reed got to bed at a reasonable hour, so this was really a whirlwind trip! Here we are, right after we arrived, with the Empire State building behind us.

We decided that our first priority was to see Central Park. As a bunch of outdoorsy people, this stop had a lot of appeal for all of us. The bonus was that my mom had never been able to go through central park while growing up in New York because it was too dangerous being a favorite haunt of violent gangs at the time.



The other stop we made was the Empire State building which was a great choice as it allowed us to get a good view of the city. We had great visibility because of the recent rain and could see a long way, which apparently is a bit of a rare occurence. This was about as happy as Reed ever got while we were at the Empire State building (which if you click on the picture to see it full size, is not very happy). I know he was tired, and he may have been a bit hungry too, but I also suspect he may have been afraid of our lofty altitude as he stopped screaming and crying when we got back down to the ground.

We're back from the city at this point, and while this picture may look lovely and benign, this was probably the most dangerous place we ever visited. The area that we were visiting has one of the highest rates of Lyme disease in the country and we are standing in prime tick habitat here. Most of my family there have had at least one bout with the disease and in fact, one of my cousins was bit at the very park we're standing in and in the midst of her battle with Lyme, she told us there were times that she prayed she would not wake up. Scary stuff. New York state far exceeded my expectations for scenic beauty, but it was strange to not feel comfortable in the woods for fear of being bit by a tick carrying Lyme. I'll take Washington anyday thank you very much!

The other thing that is telling about this picture, is who is holding Reed. Reed got REALLY attached to my dad while we're away. Now certainly a part of this is that my dad is really good with kids (I call him the Pied Piper of our neighborhood because all the kids are drawn to him). But I think the other part is that Reed recognized that a very significant man was missing from his life and latched on to the closest one he could find.
Reed and I were in New York for 10 days, and Gerry left two days before we departed which left our family divided for just short of two weeks, which felt like an eternity. I really enjoyed the trip and absolutely fell in love with all my family there and I can't wait to return. I'll just have to talk Gerry into coming with me next time!!